What’s a ‘blended orgasm’ and how do I give her one?

What’s a ‘blended orgasm’ and how do I give her one?


IF YOU’VE BEEN known to troll—er, frequent—female-centric websites for insight on getting her off, odds are good you’ve stumbled across something called a “blended orgasm.”

Something of a unicorn in the world of pleasure, the phenomenon seems elusive and mysterious—and we’re betting you sure as hell wanna get your hands on one.

Well, now’s the time to learn.

Blended orgasms are a mixture of clitoral and G-spot orgasms. As afemale orgasm expert, I’ve been getting a lot of questions from my male clients about how to give their partner one, so I’m here to separate fact from fiction and teach you how to maximize her pleasure.

I personally don’t like classifying orgasms. I think it drags us back into the dark age when Freud was arguing that clitoral orgasms were “immature.” Classifying and ranking orgasms inevitably makes women feel inadequate and broken. It makes them feel pressured to perform.

Bottom line: The pleasure your lady feels is most important. The specific “type” of orgasm she has really doesn’t matter.

My advice: Rather than pressuring her to have a blended orgasm, simply keep your focus on giving her internal and external stimulation at the same time. A shockingly small number of men do—or even know how to do—this. The combination of sensations can be mind-blowing for a woman as she fires from multiple erogenous zones.

Here are the best ways to give her dual stimulation.