APPARENTLY SATURDAY NIGHTS are for the boys, too.
Straight men officially prefer bromance to romance, according to a new study in Men and Masculinities.
When researchers surveyed straight undergrad men, they found that the majority of guys reported their close friendships with other dudes to be more emotionally satisfying than their romantic relationships.
“The guys we interviewed said that their bromantic friendships were less regulated and less pressured. So while in a romantic relationship, these men felt they have to maintain a better version of themselves; in their bromances, they can remove the mask and expose more of their anxieties or vulnerabilities without fear of judgement and repercussions, like the withholding of sex or drawn-out arguments,” explains study author Adam White, Ph.D., lecturer at the University of Bedfordshire in the U.K.
Also: “Bromantic” is apparently now an academic term. So there’s that.
That may be why another study from White’s team found bromances are on the rise, with significantly more dudes reporting a bestie now than two decades ago.
“The guys we spoke to were clear to distinguish the difference between friends and a bromance, with a bromance being significantly more important. Essentially they are an equivalent to a romance, with the exception of sex,” White says. Bromances generally involve shared interests, emotional intimacy, and physical tactility.